Thats been my word for the past couple days. The causes are manly stupid, but I've been very frustrated with the feeling that I can't vindicate myself. It's not that I don't have the right arguments. I can vindicate myself, especially in my mind, for hours.
The problem is, and this is a big one. I'm nice. It stinks being nice. Its not simply that I'm nice. That's a wimpy excuse not to defend yourself. Its that I think stuff like "I don't know what kind of day they have had" or "What good will my being aggressive back do?"
All that said, this is my moment. Its been building up inside me for the past couple days. Like I said, this is mostly over stupid stuff, people I don't even know online. How lame. But its in me and I need it out.
I'm sorry you were having a bad day.
I'm sorry that I did something you considered to be incorrect.
I'm sorry that I respected you.
I'm sorry that I tried to explain myself at all to you.
I'm sorry you felt the need to project inordinate amounts of anger toward me.
I'm sorry you think it works to put a smilie face at the end to make it seem nice.
I'm sorry you didn't think about how the one
faceless person you took all the bad day out on was
the one person who would
go red in the face,
Do I need to be less sensitive. Ohyeah. Was I having an emotional day too? Definitely. Am I sorry I am not sorry? No.
All this said... think. Think before you take any anger out on someone. Think before you are rude. Think before you assume you know their motives. Think of how you want to be treated. Think of how crappy their day may have been. Think of the better.
Even if they are just a name on a screen.
Also, to the person this was toward... I sincerely hope today was better.